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  • I know you wrote H and O, and not H2 and O2, but I’m going to assume the gas forms because those two substances pretty much cannot exist in their pure forms

    And for those, O2 is necessary for our life, and H2 is non-toxic, it’s just very flammable. So I don’t know if the comparison fully works

    Of course, you’re right if you mean pure H and pure O, but, again, they will immediately combine to form a new substance


  • “everyone’s punching up” ignores the influence of personality and compatibility though

    To me appearance isn’t that important (as long as it’s feminine), what is though, us how much I like their personality, and that’s not only subjective, but also something that can be worked on. Moreover, if you like someone’s personality, chances are they like yours too, because at that point a lot of it is about compatibility as well (if I like someone who likes DnD, chances are they do the same, right?)

    Humans are too much of social creatures for it to be a simple measure of “who’s hotter” evolutionary speaking








  • To me minimalism is about consciously thinking about what items I keep in my environment. Mostly this means I don’t buy random stuff unless I’m certain I’m going to use it, so I wouldn’t even have a canoe in the first place

    I do not like when there’s a lot of stuff, it stresses me out and overwhelms me, and generally, in my experience, just causes more issues than it solves in the long run. That doesn’t mean you should throw away stuff you might need, but more that you actively think about the things you have, instead of mindlessly gathering more

    So, what if I were to, say, inherit a canoe and had the space to store it? Would I throw it away? No, but I would donate it to a school yard sale




  • As a rule of thumb, there typically are very few people clamoring for volunteer leader positions. It’s a constant problem you see even in irl non-profit organizations, unless they’re fairly big/famous

    It just turns out that, it’s actually just a lot of responsibility and work. Most people realize this, and don’t have the capacity to do the work, so often there even are no candidates for the leader positions… until someone reluctantly steps up because otherwise the organization would die

    At least, that’s my experience in the real life organizations and clubs I’ve volunteered in



  • I mean, it is unironically a good question though. There’s no biological reason for why that can’t happen, and in fact, it would be more efficient! You’d be less exposed to predators etc

    The actual answer is, of course, that there are other reasons for why it’s a longer activity. Such as, for example, it being about social bonding



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    I don’t know if that analogy fully works. Bees get safety, they get a maintained home, as a colony they get healthcare from pests and similar, they get security when things get rough

    Yes, they do more work, but the beekeeper also cares for them, and ensures their survival to a greater degree

    Not to mention, they’re not caged, they’re free to leave



  • Yes

    It’s worth to keep in mind that whether something is disparaging or not depends on the intention, and the context. Similar to how, say, “gay” can be used both positively and negatively, for example, “that’s so gay”.

    So why do some people like it/its? You’d need to ask the relevant person, there can be different reasons that are ultimately personal.

    But here’s one way to think about it: We use ‘it’ for animals, right? Like if we have a dog, which we love, we often will still say ‘it’ for it, right? But that doesn’t mean we value it less, or somehow objectify it, or treat it like an object. We still acknowledge and respect it as a living breathing feeling being, and yet we may still use ‘it’ for it. This may be one way people might think of using it/its for themselves, at least!

    And also there’s something about the vibe of it/its, I dunno, it’s hard to describe, but it is kinda growing on me a little bit as well