• eatthecake@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Why is this surprising? Im my experience sexual disagreements consist of men trying to make me do something i dont want to do which is obviously a good reason to break up.

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      11 months ago

      Come on, just wear this strap on and peg me in my arse.

      E: Sorry, I’m really comfortable with sexual exploration, especially with my own body. However, my recent ex of 10 years thought I was a little too kinky though.

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      11 months ago

      I’ve left a man for lack of sex.

      Admittedly, it was after a year of no sex and me expressing displeasure with that but still.

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        11 months ago

        Ha, try competing with me, 2 years and going 🤣.

        I know I can go 3, cuz I’ve done it… but can’t guarantee after that 🤣.

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          11 months ago

          Yeah, I can’t. I know I get resentful after a while and “resentful” isn’t sexy (outside of a very specific kink that I don’t have) so it feels like a self-fulfilling cycle.

          I just gotta move on.

          • 0x4E4F@sh.itjust.works
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            11 months ago

            (outside of a very specific kink that I don’t have)

            lol 🤣… yeah, I get it… I’m a very sexual person… I don’t fill the void with specific kink porn 🤷 😂.

            Umfortunatelly, I can’t move on… she’s my wife, I have a kid with her, she’s no good around him, so I have to step up. Apparently, my conscience has presidence before my sex drive.

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    11 months ago

    I’m not saying it shouldn’t be studied just because it’s obvious, but this is obvious. Men not getting what they want sexually usually means they are sexually frustrated. Women not getting what they want sexually generally means they are being coerced into doing things they don’t want to do. Both suck, but one is worse than the other.

  • Renneder@sh.itjust.worksOPM
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    11 months ago

    • Research has shown that sexual disagreement in a relationship is more strongly associated with the likelihood of relationship dissolution for women than for men.

    • Traditional beliefs about the impact of sexual harmony on relationship stability have been challenged.

    • The researchers focused on seven European countries and used data from the Generations and Gender Survey.

    • People who reported frequent sexual disagreements were significantly more likely to consider leaving their relationship.

    • Women were more likely to break up than men at every level of sexual disagreement.

    • Study results are based on self-reported data, which may not always capture the full range of relationship dynamics.

    • Future research could expand on these findings by assessing the perspectives of both partners in the relationship and examining dynamics across different social and demographic groups.