• Aussieiuszko@aussie.zone
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    4 days ago

    She did get support though, just the wrong group. Gendered services aren’t really the issue here, that aspect seems like it worked fine except that she was referred incorrectly.

    You don’t know Australia.

    This is the Victorian government support page for Domestic/Family Violence.

    https://www.vic.gov.au/family-violence-statewide-support-services

    You will notice under the men’s referral section it states:

    Free, confidential expert support for people at risk of using family violence.

    And when you follow the link to the referred service they state:

    No to Violence provides a range of services to support men concerned about their behaviour to change what they are doing and keep women, children and communities safer.

    Men are only the abusers in the eyes of the government in Australia.

    • Warl0k3@lemmy.world
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      4 days ago

      That’s pretty clearly just a badly thought out label for the program though, there’s other similar things under their own separate and similarly poorly named headings. I’m also not sure it’s fair to draw that conclusion about the attitude of the government from that example - there’s a whole bunch of gender-neutral support groups on that same page, including the very first entry:

      Safe Steps provides specialised support for individuals facing family and domestic violence, regardless of age, gender, ability, or cultural background. We’re here to listen, understand your situation, and guide you to safety.

      That a program exists specifically to help male abusers via therapy isn’t an endorsement of the idea thst female abusers don’t exist, it’s a sign that Australia follows the abuse trends of every other country, where men are orders of magnitude more likely to be violent abusers.

      Male access to therapy is fucking terrible across the entire world, so a specific program set up to help remedy that, even in a way with a narrow focus, is not what I would call a problem.