“Anything that helps people that want to have children is good”
Your response was
“As long as people who don’t want to have children aren’t pressured. Not everyone is interested in parenting, and that needs to be accepted.”
At no point was anyone’s talking about forcing people to have kids. You’ve built a strawman and are arguing about something that nobody is talking about.
You. You have made it about yourself and are now trying to pretend you didn’t.
Yeah, the guy you’re talking to took “anything” and started talking about some hypothetical rapist government when the original comment clearly says “people that want to have children.”
You seem to be the only one using such a stretched interpretation. You went out of your way to interpret something in the worst manner possible. And now you’re just fixated on your own misinterpretation and using it to pick a fight. That’s the huge red flag you’re talking about.
I don’t see anyone jumping in here to support you. At least Yawweee seems to get it.
What ever reason china is doing is doesn’t negate the fact no one of forcing or pressuring people to have kids.
What the country is doing is making it easier for those that choose to have kids to do so.
Lots people want to have kids but can’t because life is so goddamn expensive at the moment.
This allows them to do that.
You are completely free to choose not to. To focus on and say “but what about me I don’t want kids” has absolutely no bearing on the fact that lots of people do.
I’m happy for you to not have kids.
I hope you grow old and boring. It sounds like we’d be better of if you dont procreate anyway.
I don’t live in China, so this isn’t about me.
Did you hurt yourself making that stretch?
Exactly it’s not about you.
So why are you commenting that some people DONT WANT KIDS and this shouldnt be forced on us.
You are making it about yourself.
The only person trying to make it about me is…you.
Quit trying to make it happen, and stop with the fucking gaslighing.
The original comment was
“Anything that helps people that want to have children is good”
Your response was
“As long as people who don’t want to have children aren’t pressured. Not everyone is interested in parenting, and that needs to be accepted.”
At no point was anyone’s talking about forcing people to have kids. You’ve built a strawman and are arguing about something that nobody is talking about.
You. You have made it about yourself and are now trying to pretend you didn’t.
Yeah, the guy you’re talking to took “anything” and started talking about some hypothetical rapist government when the original comment clearly says “people that want to have children.”
Swing. And a miss
The fact you can’t reflect on how your own words come across is a huge red flag
Good luck @EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com
You seem to be the only one using such a stretched interpretation. You went out of your way to interpret something in the worst manner possible. And now you’re just fixated on your own misinterpretation and using it to pick a fight. That’s the huge red flag you’re talking about.
I don’t see anyone jumping in here to support you. At least Yawweee seems to get it.
What ever reason china is doing is doesn’t negate the fact no one of forcing or pressuring people to have kids.
What the country is doing is making it easier for those that choose to have kids to do so.
Lots people want to have kids but can’t because life is so goddamn expensive at the moment.
This allows them to do that.
You are completely free to choose not to. To focus on and say “but what about me I don’t want kids” has absolutely no bearing on the fact that lots of people do.
I’m happy for you to not have kids. I hope you grow old and boring. It sounds like we’d be better of if you dont procreate anyway.