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Cake day: August 2nd, 2023

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  • I work a shit ton of OT, but I get paid 1.5x or 2x based on circumstances for that extra time

    I deliver the same quality of work on ST and OT—my best, but I would never work unpaid OT (e.g. some of my salaried engineers have been living at the job during our system upgrades) or do things well beyond the scope of my job.

    Fuck that





  • 3 older sisters, 1 younger sister.

    Haven’t spoken to the oldest in over 5 years. No hate, she’s just 10 years older than me, has 5 or 6 kids, and lived halfway across the US for my entire life.

    2nd oldest and I talk at least monthy. We’re the closest. Twin and I talk once every couple of months.

    Little sister and I haven’t spoken in months, and even then we rarely talk to each other and she has never been the first one to initiate contact. We fought a lot growing up, relationship got a little better after moving out, and now I have no idea what her issue is.

    Today’s her birthday, I have no intention of reaching out. She’s engaged, I have no interest in attending the wedding. She went no contact first, I just have given up trying to reach out and maintain a relationship she clearly doesn’t want.