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  • TrackinDaKraken@lemmy.worldtoMemes@sopuli.xyzBit harsh?
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    5 hours ago

    I grew up in California, and moved to New Mexico. I should have taken Spanish in high school, instead of French.

    Most people who speak more than one language also speak English, so I don’t really NEED to learn another language. Also, I don’t talk to people much.

    That meme: “You speak English because it’s the only language you know. I speak English because it’s the only language you know. We are not the same.”

    Well, okay, thanks.











  • I’m 60. I’ve been around the block more than a few times.

    No, you haven’t “moved on”, you’re in here asking about her. That’s not moving on.

    Let it go, find someone now, stop pining over past attractions. You’re just wasting your time.

    In my experience, this sort of thing never works out the way you hope. Assuming she remembers you, she’ll be polite but confused and possibly dismissive. This is the best you’ll get. It’s not worth the effort, and it might be a blow to your ego, since you’re even considering this.

    Find someone new, here, and now. Leave the past in the past. There are plenty of girls out there, go practice on them. Failure is how you learn, don’t be afraid of failing, failing is good, failing is fun, don’t take it personally, just move on to the next adventure. Yes, I said “failing is fun”, it really is if you look at it the right way. Would you only play basketball if every shot was guaranteed? Do you play games on god mode? Winning every time is boring, you know that. So, get out there and fail, and have fun doing it.



  • Yes, and more. I dropped 40 pounds in about a month. Although it was due to extreme stress, so I don’t recommend that. But, it is physically possible, so there are other routes you can try.

    You’ve probably heard it before, but the key to quick fat loss is dropping carbs, including beer. Sorry.

    Track your carbs using a macro tracking app, because you don’t know how many carbs you are eating, you just don’t, and you’ll be surprised. Once you learn which foods are full of carbs, you can stop using the app, it’s just a learning tool, not something you need to keep doing.

    Get it below 100g a day, and watch the fat burn away, and you’ll start feeling so much better, after the first couple of weeks. It can be a hard adjustment for some people, but it’s worth it.

    Exercise is only about 20% of it, diet is 80%, which makes sense. It’s much easier to not consume the food in the first place, than to burn it off after it’s already fat.

    However, to be healthy, not just lose fat, you need to do both diet and exercise. That’s why it’s always presented that way--“diet AND exercise”, not “diet OR exercise”.

    It’s best to make the commitment to a permanent lifestyle change, rather than just aiming for a goal weight and then going back to drinking beer every day. You’ll QUICKLY gain the fat back, faster than you lost it, and that is disheartening.

    If you just give up, you could end up with type 2 diabetes in 15 or 20 years, and that makes being old much worse. So, it’s worth the effort.