

Friend of mine started a womens’ friend group in a small town. She posted the first meet up on Facebook, made it for a wine bar at a time not too many people would be there. She used an agenda, having us write and doodle answers to questions like “how did you make friends as a child?” “What has been difficult about making friends now?” “What kind of activities would you be interested in?”
Some of the hopes for the group included things like having a place to ask for help if you needed a ride or help moving a couch, or inviting someone to just hang out for moral support while you fold laundry.
The group set up a signal chat to make regular plans, ask for advice from people who had different experience levels, discuss current events, etc.
I would recommend doing this with some kind of narrow focus, like a particular gender or age group, or life stage commonality.








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