Reddit is only good for massively reposted memes at this point. Any real communities with any semblance of civility are better on Lemmy, in my opinion, thanks to Reddit’s policy of shooting themselves in the foot.
Edit: even with memes, I’ve found Lemmy to be the better option.
Dead communities or Bot communities. Pick one.
There’s a few smaller communities on reddit that I like that don’t have a presence here, which is unfortunate. I feel ya.