It sounds like they may have had ADHD. My partner and I struggled with that for a bit what ended up helping was a small daily task list, stuff like do the dishes, do the laundry, clean the bathroom. Just 3 or 4 things to have a physical reminder to do those tasks. Eventually they become routine and the list is less necessary. If you ever find yourself in a relationship like that again it isn’t your responsibility to be your partners executive function, but it could be helpful to ask “what do you need from me to help you remember to do these things” and maybe make some suggestions.
- 0 Posts
- 23 Comments
Not OP, but proton isn’t Linux it’s the software that makes games work on Linux, largely you don’t need to mess with the version of it (unless you’re into tinkering or something is behaving weirdly) as for which distro, that’s kind of a spiritual journey lol, find the one that clicks beat with you. I prefer Arch, but have heard good things about PopOS, Mint, and CachyOS. Of those CachyOS is the one that was specifically built to game, but ultimately the difference between distros of Linux is (for an average person) basically just what package manager you use.
Shark03@lemmy.worldto
Linux Gaming@lemmy.world•Valve put up a new Steam Linux Runtime 4.0 with a move towards 64-bitEnglish
3·9 months agoI think GE is on like 10-25 now or somewhere around there.
I think they’re thinking like Star Trek federation, there is no need for currency because everything can be made from a replicator.
Shark03@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•Chinese EV maker BYD says new fast-charging system could be as quick as filling up a tankEnglish
9·1 year agoThe other annoying thing is when you find a L2 charger at a hotel that is actually just an L1 charger in disguise.
Shark03@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•Chinese EV maker BYD says new fast-charging system could be as quick as filling up a tankEnglish
10·1 year agoThats a great point as well, if you live in an apartment the best you can hope for is if you have a garage with an outlet and your apartment complex hasn’t cracked down on you plugging in that way, but that’s like 20 miles charge in several hours.
Shark03@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•Chinese EV maker BYD says new fast-charging system could be as quick as filling up a tankEnglish
341·1 year agoPeople just have the wrong idea about EV charging. They think of it like a gas car, wait until you’re low, then go somewhere to fill up. But really, it’s more like charging your phone. You plug it in at home, go to bed, wake up, and it’s ready. You’re not constantly thinking about it.
Fast charging is for road trips, not everyday driving. You’re not supposed to be scrambling to find a charger every couple of days. Ideally, you start each morning with 80%, go about your day, come home, plug in, and do it all over again. You’re never really “empty” unless you seriously mess up. And the whole “how long does it take to charge?” thing, isn’t really all that relevant. You’re not sitting there watching it, it just happens while you’re doing other things.
People are stuck on the idea of gas stations, but with an EV, your “gas station” is literally your house.
So ideally it wouldn’t be handling 12 cars at once it’d be handling one or two.
Shark03@lemmy.worldto
Games@lemmy.world•What games have you sunk the most time into?English
2·2 years agoActually we ended up just fixing production on Nauvis and getting epic mech armor lol.
Shark03@lemmy.worldto
Games@lemmy.world•What games have you sunk the most time into?English
9·2 years agoPlaying it with my boyfriend, I have about 500 hours, about to head to aquilo for the first time, wish us luck!
Shark03@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•Tesla Has Highest Rate of Deadly Accidents Among Car Brands, Study FindsEnglish
3·2 years agoActually they do, if you would slow down faster than a normal car would from coasting the brake lights do turn on.
Well specifically in Stargate the “gods” were literal aliens that actually treated humans as sort of cattle to host their young, mine their ore, serve as their armies. All that said they do end up visiting places with NA indigenous people and they do actually have a good relationship with their “gods” which staying in line with the theme of the show were a different set of advanced aliens.
It’s pretty much the plot of at least up to where I’ve seen so far. Go through Stargate find isolated human culture who worship aliens as gods, say hey they’re not gods, join the resistance! Here have free guns.
Shark03@lemmy.worldto
Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Evangelical leaders celebrate Trump’s victory as a prophecy fulfilledEnglish
1·2 years agoShe did attempt to hand it over to the pah-wraith tho.
Shark03@lemmy.worldto
Linux@lemmy.ml•Valve Engineer Fixes Massive Performance Issue For RADV Driver With AMD FSR2 - Phoronix
3·2 years agoWas this affecting fsr 3 as well?
Shark03@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Am i the only one who feels like it's the same handful of users posting and commenting on lemmy?
30·2 years agoNot the person you asked but another lurker. Social interaction is hard, even posting this I’m having second thoughts about it, but I still like to feel like a member of the community.
While I agree 107 is 107 and it sucks regardless, at like 30% humidity my sweat can evaporated and do it’s job of keeping me cooler, at 98% humidity your sweat has a much much harder time evaporating and it actively feels hotter. The time I spent living in Florida taught me that yes dry heat is absolutely better.
Shark03@lemmy.worldto
Linux Gaming@lemmy.world•Linux 6.11-rc7 To Fix A "Massive Performance Regression" For AMD GraphicsEnglish
4·2 years agoGenuinely when was the last time you tried playing a non-native game on Linux?
Shark03@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•Are they a thief of focus or simply very efficient entertainment?English
4·2 years agoThat’s fair. I guess my point was more it isn’t a problem unique to video games and people tend to overlook their vices and say well at least I’m not addicted to <insert different time sink>.



That’s super fair. I didn’t mean to imply you didn’t try hard enough or anything, I suppose my main intent is to put examples of good communication on the Internet for others to see. I hope both of you are in a better place.