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Cake day: September 12th, 2023

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  • You’re not obligated to want a monogamous relationship. Plenty of people live lives where, after some lengthy and serious conversations about expectations, desires, and boundaries, they live in ethically nonmonogamous relationships.

    That said, y’all didn’t set that up so you’re wife did intend to deceive you in some way and I think that’s worth some introspection and conversation with her. It’s not a great way to start a nonmonogamous relationship, but relationships come with trials and this could just be another to get over. That’s really up to you, your wife and your shared values.






  • I started having sex around the same age and I absolutely remember that anticipatory anxiety that was just blown away by having done the deed. I think there’s some merit to getting that out of the way, but I was having sex with someone my age. How old was the escort? In my experience, generally, the older someone is, the better they are at sex. More experience and what not. Did having sex with a professional set a high standard for expectations in subsequent hook ups?