moved here from: https://lemm.ee/u/abbadon420
- 1 Post
- 98 Comments
Exactly. You don’t have to “let go”, but rather you have to “process”. You have to give your emotions, memories and experience a proper place so that you can continue on making new emotions, memories and experiences. Good and bad. If you can’t do that, you might want to seek out a proffesional to help you with that.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL there is a law called Marchetti's Constant. Humans only tolerate commutes of less than ~1 hour. Housing outside that limit will fail.English18·2 days agoI do an hour and a half single trip. It’s only twice per week and it’s by train. So I read a book or I bring my steamdeck. I really don’t mind it. I’d be less happy if it was 5 days per week. I’d still be going by train, but also looking for a better job.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Humanity will likely survive climate change, but the vast majority of humans won't.43·2 days agoI’m sorry for the confusion, I was using the old housewives definition of species.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Humanity will likely survive climate change, but the vast majority of humans won't.43·2 days agoSome species are contesting that statement very strongly. Take the horseshoecrab, or the tardigrate or even the cockroach. Humans are known for their fast adaptability, so I’d bet my money on us joining that list.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Technology@lemmy.world•X fails to act on 97% of calls for violence against migrants or MuslimsEnglish41·3 days agoTo fail implies there was an attempt
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Europe@feddit.org•More data shows EU cloud companies are struggling to compete with US giantsEnglish3·4 days agoTariffs are not an option anymore, I think. Subsidies are though.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If the rubbish/trash/garbage collector misses your bin, can you request them to pick it up again? And how do they know it wasn't you forgetting to put the bins out?3·5 days agoThere’s different types of garbage trucks. Frontloaders,backloaders and sideloaders. I drove a sideloaders, which is typical for collecting house bins. My truck had an arm on the side that i controlled with a joystick. Ideally, I wouldn’t leave the cabin all day. The arm had a grabber that could grab two bins at a time. The arm itself had a weighing mechanism in it to weigh the bin. Some municipalities also required we’d check if the bins were registered and payd for, so the bin had a chip my arm could scan. That was always a hassle, because you had to grab the bin just right, or else you wouldn’t be able to read the chip.
The big container on the back was interchangeable. It had its own weighing system, but it really depends on what you load, how much weight you can take. For instance a full container for a paper route would weigh much less than a full contauner on a greens route. The weighing was only aan indication. I would know by experience when the container would be almost full. When the container was full, I could go to a change point close to my location. The company would drop a trailer with 3 empty co tainers for me and my colleagues. We could change out our co tainer when we’re full and so.eone else woud come pick it up. Usually we’d give them a quick call when the last co tainer was changed, so they wouldn’t have to wait for nothing. In a busy season, we would get 2 or 3 change containers. Driving back to headquarters and changing there happened, but only rarely. That could take an hour or more.
Sometimes we’d have to bring our loads not to headquarters, but to the actual garbage burning facility. Than we’d have to do the classic weigh-in weigh-out.
One strange thing I remember well is when I rode a backloader for a plastic route. I had a colleague who stood on the back and picked up all the bags of plastic trash on the street and throw it in the back. In the meantime he’d carefully rummage through them all ti look for valuables. He often found toys for his grandkids,never anything really valuable, as far as I know. But it was weird enough for me to remember it.
Another one was an incident. The sideloader arm I mentioned previously, has a very big and complicated hydrolics system. One day the hydrolics broke. Its a 1 by 1 meter big chest next to the sideloader arm and it just sprung open and started spraying oil everywhere. I didn’t know what to do, since I’m not a mechanic, so I didn’tdo anything. I couldn’teven drive a tually,because the whoke truck was freaking out. I was parked right in front of someone’s house (was trying to pickup their bin), leaking oild all over their garden. Eventually they had to send in a cleanup crew to dig up the whole garden 2 meter deep to clean out the soil. It was an environmental incident. The occupants of the house didn’t notice anything, because they were on vacation. I can only imagine what their home coming was like.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do you reconcile staying sane while keeping yourself up-to-date with the news?1·6 days agoThat’s a great idea, but quarterly bews is a bit too slow for my taste. Right now I’m mostly getting by on the sunday summaries.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If the rubbish/trash/garbage collector misses your bin, can you request them to pick it up again? And how do they know it wasn't you forgetting to put the bins out?11·6 days agoI used to be a garbage truck driver.
You drive the same routes week in, week out. You start to remember individual bins. For some bins, I would notice if they weren’t on the street that week. Than I’d get a call from headquarters to pick up that bin and I’d say no, because I know it just wasn’t there when I drove past it this morning. Most times I don’t remember though. I get a call for a bin I don’t remmeber, or maybe its not originaly on my route, and I just have to go pick it up. Its usually not a problem, I just pick it up when I’m in the area, or the end of the day.
Some people were notorious “late binners” and they’d be on the record. But if you just forget your bjn once, you can likely just call it in and blame it on them. Even if you’re honest, they might still come collect it if they’re a good service.
The only other thing we can check is if your bins have an electronic counting of weighing system. Than we can see if the been has been counted or not. That prevents you from trying a double pickup. The weighing system is especially important in summer and spring, when people have too much green garbage and arm of the truck literally can’t lift it up. Than we have quantifyable evidence to deny your bin and you’ll get a notice for it.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why is everyone still on Reddit when they could be on the Fediverse?3·6 days agoThere aren’t much niche topics here, sure. But the fewer engagement makes your engagement more valuable. On reddit I felt that all my comments went unheard unless I browsed new. It was actually a bit stressful to make my comments not be completely useless. On lemmy you’re more likely to be heard and to emgage in actual conversation or discussion with an actual person.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Piracy Starter PackEnglish4·6 days agoThat is a good point indeed, but also applies for regular internet use…
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is a song lyric that you misheard completely?9·6 days agoThat’s not really a fair song to enter in a misheard lyrics thread.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is a song lyric that you misheard completely?8·6 days agoUntill this day, I thought it was lepress too.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Piracy Starter PackEnglish711·6 days agoStill don’t know why I’d need a vpn. My country doesn’t go after individuals pirating (yet). That’s the only reason, as far as I understand, to have a vpn for pirating. So until they start to take come after individuals, I’m gonna save my money.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Piracy Starter PackEnglish50·6 days agoThose aren’t typically risky media. When you’re downloading games though, you’re downloading executable programs. You can do some serious damage if you execute the wrong things. You’re not executing a mkv or a pdf, you’re only reading it.
For me the boundary is midnight. Once the clock passes the double twelve, my body starts its shutdown sequence. I get tired and panicky thoughts like “wtf am I doing, the kids will wake me up in 6 hours” start to ruin whatever I’m doing.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Star Trek Social Club@startrek.website•Star Trek: Khan Audio Series Releases Official Trailer, Poster, Premiere Date, and Additional Voice CastingEnglish4·7 days agoStar trek works amazingly well in audio format. If you want to hear an example of that, give a listen to Star Trek: Outpost. An 82 episode production, chronicoling the lives and adventures of Star Base 3
abbadon420@sh.itjust.worksto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•For the home painter pros, question for you.3·7 days agoPrimer looks fine. Can’t really go wrong with that unless you put some effort in. The key are the edges. I see you’ve taped them off nicely, but it might still leak underneath. It’s hard to get good, straight edges, but a very important skill as a professional imho.
If you put it like that, than I can see how birds are nightcore dinosaurs.