How frustrating!!

I had a labral tear in my right hip, and I needed an MRI with contrast to diagnose it. Aetna wouldn’t cover the MRI until I’d done 6 weeks of physical therapy. I ended up paying out of pocket for the physical therapy because it was an $80/session co-pay vs their self-pay rate of $70/session. Then once I’d finished therapy there was about 6 weeks of waiting until I could get in for the MRI, because Aetna wouldn’t let me get an MRI at the local hospital, I had to go to an outpatient imaging center and they were booked up. And when I got the results - what do you know, near complete detachment! Something that physical therapy would never help with. After that, I consulted with a surgeon (6 week wait), and his waitlist for surgery was 4 months. (Granted, I went to one of the top surgeons in my area - I was OK with waiting for that.) So it ended up being 10 months from noticing the hip pain in May 2023 to finally getting the surgery in March 2024, and a lot of that delay was because Aetna was being obstructive.

I suspect they want people to get fed up with the roadblocks and just give up on pursuing medical care.

Ah, we got the Robert Redford version. I had to google the dicaprio version because I didn’t even know it existed!

• For some reason we watched Beauty and the Beast in junior high
• In my grade 9 (or maybe 10, can’t remember) Social Studies class we watched Not Without My Daughter
• At the end of the school year in grade 10 we had those few extra days with no curriculum, and we watched Se7en (no idea how this was allowed)
• In grade 10 we saw Romeo + Juliet (I think it had just come out on VHS and we’d just finished reading the play in English class)
• Cool Hand Luke sometime in grade 9 or 10, don’t remember why
• Grade 11 we saw both The Great Gatsby and Othello in English class

I’m sure I’m missing some but these are the ones that stick out to me

Yeah, both prices I gave were for name brand (Quaker). The generic Aldi oats are just as good!

Only brand I’ve ever had is Oodles of Noodles, and I don’t even know if they still make that.

How could I forget that I had given her an extra key?

I’m huge into makeup, and I watch a lot of beauty content on YouTube because I want to see how certain makeup looks and performs before I buy it. This AI bullshit defeats the purpose of demonstrating makeup.

Some thoughts:

• Buy in bulk - if you compare unit prices, you’ll see the bulk version is usually cheaper
• Make your own snacks - e.g., granola is pretty quick and easy to make at home
• Try Aldi or Lidl
• Give generic versions of things a try - a lot of the time they’re pretty close to the ‘real’ thing
• Things that are convenient are usually more expensive. Just looking online quickly, I see the big tub of old-fashioned oats is $6.39 for 30 servings (=21¢/serving), vs a box of instant oatmeal at $3 for 8 servings (=38¢/serving). So to save money, choose the less convenient version.
• Plan your meals before you shop, and pick up only what you need - this helps avoid impulse purchases

We’re 47 and 43, living in an exurb of Philly, and we cook at home 95% of the time (=20/21 meals weekly) and eat out once a week. Since it’s summer, we grill a bunch of protein and veggies - chicken, turkey burgers, and salmon, plus squash from our garden - every 5 days or so, and use that as a base for our lunches and dinners. That way each individual meal is quick to throw together and we’re not spending a bunch of time cooking every night.

When we were young we did a lot of eating out and delivery, and I wish we hadn’t. Not to harsh your mellow, but restaurant food is mostly terrible for you. Loads of fat, sodium, and sugar, and often doesn’t meet your micronutrient needs (depending on what kind of food you’re getting). Cooking at home can be way healthier. And also better for your wallet!

Lanternflies are so pretty! But there are so many of them again this year.

Same here

Gus gussssss!!

Bread and butter

The war against terror
Like the war on crime
Is a war on anyone, anytime

- Subhumans

Maybe you just don’t like leola root.

Like Corey Feldman and Dan Levy had a deeply awkward baby

A Memory Called Empire by Arkady Martine.

Yeah I was a senior in high school and everyone was skipping class on opening day to see it. What a goddamn disappointment!

I’m so tired of your posts. Every single one is so formulaic. ‘I’m a single mom of a 13-year-old boy (yes I had him at 15), he sleeps in the same bed as me, should I tell him I’m dating someone, should I tell him I’m a stripper’… yadda yadda yadda. And sometimes you repost your past posts. To what end? I’m not sure what your deal is and why you insist on inappropriate interactions with your son, but it’s sick. I really hope this is a troll account because otherwise you have a seriously messed-up dynamic in which you treat your son more like a husband than your child, and I guarantee he will need counseling. If this is real you need to get your shit together. Jesus fucking christ.