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Cake day: March 10th, 2025

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  • But… but… the invisible hand of the market! Unrestrained competition! Capitalism driving innovation! Oh wait, was all of that bullshit and while you’re lobbying congress to cut public funding for shit like school lunches the minute you face the tiniest hardship from a competitor you turn around and ask for a handout? Suck it up, buttercup. Guess socialism wins again huh?


  • I have not, I’ll have to check it out.

    I disagree on trolls. Like obviously some amount of fucking about is acceptable, but it really depends on the community and what they’re trying to do. If your community is about memes and joking around then great, do whatever, but if it’s based around serious adult conversation then it’s disruptive and counterproductive. Anyway, I just think that like anything in life moderation is a spectrum and the optimal solution is probably somewhere in the middle rather than at either end. I don’t mind people shitting on my opinions so long as they do it by engaging with my arguments and offering their own, not going ‘you’re stupid lol’ or whatever.











  • Do you play video games? Read books? Play tabletop roleplaying games? Knit? There are public and private discord communities for all of those things and more. Go find one and join it. I lost my two closest friends who I had known for almost 3 decades in a couple of years apart and realized that without those two I didn’t really have any other friends that I hung out and spent time with, and I started really feeling lonely, and I’m practically a shut-in and don’t make friends easily either. Fortunately I lucked into two things that made a world of difference: a couple of TTRPG discords that I am now decent to good friends with all of the members, and a private gaming community. Between them they have about 350 people in them, and I have made a point of hanging out with them and trying to make friends, and I’ve met quite a few people I get along with really well, and I always have people to play tabletop or video games with.