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Cake day: December 16th, 2023

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  • hi! i also am on the lemmy.cafe instance :) there’s not many of us but it’s very chill

    as for what you did to have happened, your relative may have just sent you a link to lemmy.cafe?

    that’s the cool part of fediverse: you technically don’t “join the fediverse” in the same way you don’t “join email.” Rather, you signed up for an account on a single server that can communicate with all the communities hosted between all the different servers. It’s kind of like how you might choose to make an account on outlook.com versus gmail.com—and you visit the site to go there.










  • It’s not misgendering when they’re a troll.

    you are the problem. right here. people like you who feel like they have to be guerilla saviors in trans spaces and throw around judgement and abuse without a single thought as to how much damage you are causing by doing exactly what the trolls want. you are the problem.

    DOWNVOTE. REPORT. BLOCK. how many times do we have to teach you this lesson, old man???




  • Absolutely agree. You and your team do not have issue with transgender identities—yet you do take issue with Ada’s policies surrounding dignity in transgender identities.

    If you feel any of my post is inappropriately targeted at your personal beliefs rather than your attitudes towards policy, you may absolutely let me know or suggest a better wording. I never intend to skew the truth, but I also feel a duty to my fellow community members to accurately portray why your team does not align with 196’s wills and needs.



  • In the time since I made this post, Xiaohongshu has already added a native translate button for text posts and comments.

    Images are less of a big deal since:

    a) Memes and jokes originally written in Mandarin often don’t make sense when translated anyway (i.e., puns, cultural references).

    b) English-speaking users have generally agreed to hold each other accountable so that when they post English content, they include both English and Mandarin subtitles out of respect for the fact that they are “intruding.”

    c) When worst comes to worst, iOS lets you translate text from screenshots natively (it takes a few taps but works), and Android lets you do it instantly with screen-reading translation apps.




  • At the risk of sounding rudely dismissive (I don’t mean to be), what you are describing absolutely is real and it has been named trolling. :) 100% of these behaviors have been witnessed by people since the dawn of the internet.

    While moderation helps, the proven best way to deal with trolls is to treat them like a spam email. Block, report, and delete. If you engage, respond, repost or create meta discussion about the trolling user, they win. Unfortunately, a lot of these lessons we got from Reddit have been utterly forgotten and now we have mythologized a user who did harrasment and suicide encouragement. :(