• Lazylazycat@lemmy.world
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    Yeah, I love my phone and the whole world it opens up, having access to so much information in my pocket. But I also hate how tied we are to them now. I bought tickets for a gig recently and the only way I can access them is by downloading an app (that I’m only going to use for this one gig). What if I didn’t have a smartphone? What if I didn’t want to take a smartphone to a gig? You aren’t allowed to go to this gig without one, and it’s a small thing, but I don’t like how the option is out of your hands.

    Pretty much every supermarket in the UK now requires you to download an app so you can access their offers. I hate this so much.

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      The most ridiculous part are services insisting you install an app when everything their app does could be in a progressive web app. PWAs are less work to develop as they can run on any device with a browser. For fast food and clothing brands especially, I think PWAs are a no brainer. (Unless you want to track your customers coughTimHortonscough)

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    I thought I lost my phone before moving states and nearly burst into tears. It has my insurance, the map, what if something happened to me on the road, etc. It was an awful spiraling feeling. Thankfully I found it, but it was a hard reality check of how much I have tied to this little device.

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      Yup. Ive spend a lot of time with backups and screenshots of my apps/home screen in case I need to replace it, and I still get weird when I think about it. Years of settings and customization built up, no way I’d be able to get it back 100%.

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      I run a contracting business and have had straight panic attacks over not being able to find my phone as I’m rushing out the door for the day. I really need to set up an asterisk server and keep my sim cards there but I just don’t have time, nor am I paying a service a ridiculous monthly fee to run it.

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        I know Apple is restrictive, like that other guy who commented who likes to apply customizations, but I love that apple products talk to each other seamlessly. I could have gone on through my tablet, except that I don’t pay for it to have its own wireless signal.

        That’s actually how I found my phone. My neighbor let me tag on to her WiFi and I used the Find My Phone feature with my iPad. Saved me from a meltdown lol

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        Uhm can you explain a little more about the asterisk server and the sims cards. I thought asterisk wasn’t for mobile phones.

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          I’m trying to remember myself, but I remember reading about a way to feed a sim interface into a digital telephony card for use with asterisk. It was basically like a modem the fed a voip/sip line into the system. This was years ago that I read this and I could be completely misremembering it.

  • afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world
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    Yeah. Restaurant I was in about a month ago. You need a phone to order, to pay, and to see the menu.

    You can almost imagine the conversation

    Boss: so we will move everything to app based

    Underling: but what about people without cellphones?

    Boss: people without cellphones have no money.

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    As someone who grew up before computers and smartphones were commonplace, for the most part you could still life in the same way as you did before computers and smartphones, because all the things you’d need still exist. You’d just be horribly out of the loop of the way modern life functions… But you could do it.

    What’s interesting is that pretty much no one wants to live this way any more. It was pretty damn boring a lot of the time.

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      Yeah but maybe a bit of our problem is people don’t get bored anymore. The feeling of boredom is an important one and we stuff it down with dopamine doping and doom scrolling. When I was a child, if I got bored I went outside, or I saw if my friend could play, or I got a toy out. Once smart phones came along suddenly being bored was just an invitation for Reddit— Lemmy— to fill in the void.

      I’m glad that Lemmy is not as addictive as Reddit was. I want to be bored a bit sometimes. Boredom makes me do chores instead of ignore them. Or play with my kid more. Or go hiking.

      I don’t imagine 80s kids would have said they had boring childhoods, just because they weren’t completely soaked up with phones demanding their attention 24/7.

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        My childhood wasn’t boring, but I was bored an awful lot. And I agree, boredom can be a great motivator. But I can’t say that I miss being bored.

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      To take a step back and think of our parents letting us out of the house to roam where we did without having any way of getting into contact with us is absolutely bonkers to me as a parent now.

      I’m having to work on a safety plan for a trade school. There is no good way of establishing communication across campus in the event of a disaster outside of A) Walkie Talkies or B) Cellphones. And honestly I can’t entrust faculty and staff to grab a walkie talkie in such an event. What I can trust is that they’ll have their cellphone on them.

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    The smartphone is the only science fiction thing we have.

    We didn’t get table top fusion reactors, food pills, Rosie the robot, casual commercial space travel, flying cars, hoverboards, etc…

    But we did get a little computer we can carry around that has literally everything in it. It’s a camera, it’s camcorder, it’s a microcassette voice recorder, computer, telephone, book, TV, video conference system, remote control for all my lights, remote control for the TV, a McDonald’s ordering device, instant messenger, magazine, radio, GPS for my car, GPS tracker for my family, health monitoring device, flashlight, Sears catalog - It would probably be harder to come up with a list of things that it can’t do.

    You can take my smartphone from my cold dead hands.

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      We did get flying cars. They are called helicopters. Impractical except for niche applications.

      Look at the mofos you see only dealing with driving in straight lines on the ground and tell me you want them flying. Like a week ago I made the foolish mistake of honking (one honk) someone who cut me off and they got behind me just so they could rage honk and tailgate me for a solid minute. You want that guy with access to the ability to drop stuff from above?

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        I don’t trust most LA drivers to handle two degrees of freedom (technically one and a half) why the fuck would I trust them with six then?

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      This kind of “single device that replaced an entire backpack of stuff” is why there are no computers in the Dune universe.

      They would make the plots too easy to resolve.

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        The whole no computers thing in Dune never made any sense. The only difference between a computer and an industrial controller is scale, not kind. We had wood computers in the 19th century. Some of them are still operating.

        Ok lets talk about sewage. To turn human feces into dirt we use stages, to move from stage to stage we use screw conveyors. Without computers how are you going to regulate the speed of it? When to run them? Deal with clogs? Report motor problems?

        Nothing would work beyond about the 1840s. And yet they act like it does. Which brings me to my fantheory about Dune: Just assume everything is told by inbred religious royality morons cosplaying and it all makes sense. Why do they fight with swords? Why cant they fold space without spice and yet clearly could in the past? Why do they think the Bene witches have powers? Because they are religious royality morons cosplaying.

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        I agree, in fact let’s get rid of all technological advances humans have made in the past few hundreds of thousands of years. Man wasn’t intended to use “tools” like weapons or agriculture or housing or machine manufacturing. Our ORIGINS say we’re monkeys, we shouldn’t be walking on 2 legs or speaking like this! After all, social sedentary culture and technological advancement is COMPLETELY UNNATURAL and NOT AT ALL a core part of an ““intelligent”” species’ evolution! Ooo ooo aaa aaa

  • Nioxic@lemmy.world
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    I need a smartphone app to:

    Access mail from my government

    Log into any website as ‘me’ (taxes, car related stuff, my net bank, etc)

    Buy a damn bus ticket

    In reality i dont need my phone to be smart. But society wants me to

    But i do everything i can to avoid getting apps from various companies. Membership bonuses etc. I hate it so much.

    I do enjoy my smartphone in the car though, for google maps, music and taking a call. But… i would much rather, if that was just built into the cars infotainmentsystem.

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    Fuck society. Grr, I don’t like how much we’re expected to have phones. It’s not just the electronic though, but the number attached to it as well.

    I’m phoneless as a stand against canadian telecom companies and wow I’m basically a second-class citizen. Almost any service becomes inaccessible.

    Heavens forbid I care about my own privacy and get a vpn. Now I’m locked out of even MORE services that want to ID check me with my phone.

    Just let me have what I seek 😭 there’s too many steps to these services now

    auuuugh rant done ty.

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      It’s very interesting to see how primitive services such as government’s services requires citizens to have a phone. So eventually you can literally not be a citizen without a phone.

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        The life I experience is an invisible struggle, but it’s partially self-induced. I wonder how others are fairing, especially those who didn’t have the privilege of choice.

        Then again, my city’s vocal majority want to wipe the board clean of homeless so maybe my empathy is misplaced.

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      You literally have what you seek. You want to be an island, and you are one.

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            That’s incorrect, my appologies for the confusion.

            My privacy concerns are a seperate issue that causes additional turmoil. Most services throw a ton of 2fa at you once they see the vpn, typically involving some means of identifying you with a phone number. Discord is the most common place I run into. That’s a lot of stuff I’m missing out on just with one service.

            I’m standing against telecoms because they provide terrible service for rediculous prices. I’m especially aware of what they can offer as I used to work in Bell’s loyalty department (lasted a month LOL). By paying for shitty phone services, I’m accepting it. I’d rather search for an alternative.

            I mean, who wouldn’t want internet access anywhere they want in their city?

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    You used to be able to get a military discount at Home Depot by showing your ID. Now they won’t give it to you unless you have a smart phone, sign up for a Home Depot account, agree to their ToS, log in at the store, wait for them to email you a verification email (which they do literally every single time), and then navigate back to your account, find the QR code, and scan it. It’s fucking bullshit!

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    Makes me think of restaurants with QR code menus (been to a couple bars where you have to order through that menu too).

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      Teach them the hard way: replace some of their QR codes to open porn sites

      In Brazil, some places also accept payment and offer a QR code on the table to speed up some data input. Some miscreants replaced said QR so the payment would go to their accounts instead.

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      I hate this.

      Loads of places just have very poor implementation.

      A few weeks ago I was waiting at a counter to order like an idiot for 15 minutes while everyone ignored me until I realised other customers were just ordering with their phones. Just a simple sign saying “please order with your phone” would have done the trick.

      Another place I couldn’t figure out what time the kitchen actually opened. Like you could order but the kitchen wasn’t open yet. They just assume you would know something so obvious but it’s not obvious if you don’t know.

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    A friend of mine has no smartphone (still an old Nokia mobile) and thus has no access to a train ticket in his state in Germany. There is no way of a non-digital ticket. That’s so f’ed up

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    I’ll tell ya, it’s getting a lot harder to drive around my horse and buggy with all these darned automobiles on the road. These iron chariots are making the simple pleasures a real humdinger.

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    I went from a wallet with a bunch of cards and a bit of cash to my phone. nothing else. haven’t used cash or my physical card in years

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    It’s a good thing and a bad thing imo.

    People now can keep and relive moments easier and faster than ever before, but it does suck how big companies now just use it to do anything and how ads are just thrown everywhere to make every possible penny they can.