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  • monknonoke@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    I had a nightmare of being stuck in a toxic relationship. Ending: naki-pag bargain pa ako sa kanya para makuha niya na lahat ng gusto niya sakin, so I can finally be free and off myself kasi wala na nga siyang makukuha and there’s no advantage of keeping me around. Naka-smile pa ako nun, and then I woke up. Mabigat sa pakiramdam 10/10.

    I think if I were to categorise my bad dreams na naalala ko it would either be someone dying or me being in a toxic relationship and trying to get out of it so badly. Other kinds of fears, I can usually overcome them in dreamland pero yung dalawang yan it does reoccur.

    Makes me feel anxious. Wooh! Gusto ko na lang mag therapy. Lol.

    • malamignasanmig
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      11 months ago

      yung nightmares ko naman ay habulan scenes. either ako yung hinahabol o ako yung naghahabol. kapag ako yung hinahabol, kadalasan hindi ko kilala yung pursuer. minsan humans, minsan monsters.
      pero kung ako yung naghahabol, kadalasan, mga taong kakilala ko, yung mga taong gusto kong kasama. at bihira ko sila maabutan.
      for both scenarios, i usually wake up tired, as if i did run for miles in real life.

        • malamignasanmig
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          11 months ago

          yes, they are common. just wanted to share that in my case, familiarity with those involved is clearly binary - strangers when pursued, known when i am the pursuer. or is that common too?