Insane expectations being placed on women around beauty and appearance, and the resulting insecurities that creates, play a big role in this

The whole question of double standards is in a sense, asking about common unhealthy traits

It’s not entirely on you. Accusing you of mansplaining is not cool, she should’ve just said something like “i’m sharing this because I’m looking for emotional support, not solutions, so please stop trying to solve my problems when I’m just venting”.

In a sense, how people react to having problems shared with them is a cultural difference, neither is right or wrong but they can be jarring and confusing when you’re used to one culture but interact with a different one. But it’s not fair to just assume the other culture is acting in bad faith

I’ve heard the “pick-me” phrase most common in the context of girls, where they’ll say stuff like “i’m not like other girls” to try to get favor from guys. https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/pick-me-girl/ this is actually a really good summary of it, “A pick-me girl is a woman who obsessively desires male approval and validation, often at the expense of other women.”

in this case a pick-me vegan is trying to get favor from non-vegans by saying “cats can’t possibly be vegan” at the expense of a rational discussion

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A lot of vegans will downvote coming from a sort of “pick-me” vegan place

https://www.reddit.com/r/veganpets/wiki/faq/#wiki_scientific_literature_review_.28research.29

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Chikfila abuses animals

Does it matter if someone has integrity if they always do the right thing?

Oh yeah I do this, I’ll raise you that mine also sshs into my server to update the editor theme

Hey that’s pretty good, I’m gonna steal it. It might even be worth making a pullrequest to update swaylock to have a flag to do this, I use waybar and it has a lock inhibit button that I use before I start watching anything, but automating it like this is seems super nice

Asses to asses, flush to flush 🤷

wait till they’re under the water to say that

“Not yet 31” so… 30?

With friends like that, who needs enemies?

I thought that’s the list of links between “—Marina Bolotnikova, deputy editor, Future Perfect” and the “Credits” section

What do you mean?

Or at least motivation to get a vasectomy