Kajo [he/him] 🌈

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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I think it’s a more global movement.

    When I was recruited at my university in the early 2000s, every teacher had an ftp-accessible space with an http address like myuni.edu/~myname. The more techie ones did html, the fancier ones even added css. Muggles would export html from a Word document.

    Then one day, the IT department decided to replace this with a “learning management system”. A wysiwyg platform with dozens of modules for videoconferencing courses, homework submission, online exams, and so forth.

    Except that the user (the teacher) no longer has control over his or her personal space.















  • There is no universal “line”. Every family has its own implicit rules about clothing and nudity, which vary from situation to situation.

    If she doesn’t question the rules acquired on her mother’s side (your SO doesn’t seem to be worried by her clothes), it’s because she sees you as an adult in the family, i.e. someone she trusts and who won’t sexualize her.

    If you feel uncomfortable, I think you should work on that on your side. I think these days, it must be precious for a young adult to have a safe place, where she can dress without being judged or sexualized. You shouldn’t risk taking that away from her.




  • Salade nicoise : cold rice, tomatoes, cucumbers, olivs (green or black, but black ones give a weird color to the salad), mayonnaise. You can also add thuna, cubes of hard cheese…

    Tabbouleh : bulgur, tomatoes, cucumber, oignon, mint, lemon juice, olive oil. You can also add chicken breast, chick peas, raisin, parsley, watermelon…

    For these salades, there are tons of recipes. In my opinion, the most important is to have more vegetables than anything else.